I personally do not care about number of posts, but personally if I come into a new group, I try to feel out the room and dynamics, not insist that all play by MY rules the second I walked in.
Personally hope you stay and contribute, it’s a fun place. Like everywhere else, we could all use some more humor and leeway. The world has gotten super sensitive.
To put the watch question in context for you. We get a nauseating amount of folks that join an hr ago asking “is my watch real?” 99% of time it’s a blatant fake that you know they would answer their own question if they just googled it. Gets old. Your watch is not in that category 🙂