Gift from my son-in-law, but I'll pack my bags. Been nice knowing y'all!
Gift from my son-in-law, but I'll pack my bags. Been nice knowing y'all!Excuse me, with that Batman watch you don't need to be here anymore. You have clearly peaked and any other watch will be a step down.
One of the most important things I learned in my experience in Alcoholics Anonymous is how I went from hearing and sharing stories about my addiction to hearing and sharing stories about my recovery, including all the successes and failures. I went from seeing abstinence as shameful punishment, a metaphorical self-flagellation, to eventually learning that abstinence was just the beginning, that it was a means to have clarity of mind and give myself opportunity to make smarter, safer decisions. Abstinence was not a whip or chains, it was a mirror and a touchstone—a safe space from the chaos of addiction. This is how I came to embrace WPAC in the last few years and reduce my watch buying and hoarding. This is "my program," to use AA parlance, and it did not happen overnight. Addiction recovery never ends but it changes with sobriety and time. Hearing how others have employed the ideals of WPAC gives me new tools to add to my toolbox and it helps me continue on a path to becoming a more conscientious watch enthusiast instead of just a watch collector.Collection size would be a bit of a legacy of one's pre-abstinence era I guess. It is up to the individual to decide what to do with that legacy. However, as a consequence of abstinence, I think your mindset towards the "hobby" will inevitably change as well. WPAC is ultimately about learning to appreciate what you have, rather than chasing the next shiny thing; and with that mindset one may arrive at the conclusion that appreciating a small collection is easier than a massive hoard, and thus reducing one's collection size may be the next logical step.This raises a nuanced existential question, where do such watches fit into WPAC if the club is founded on purchasing abstinence but not necessarily collection size and wearing habits? Is this something for the individual watch enthusiast to decide for themselves
One of the most important things I learned in my experience in Alcoholics Anonymous is how I went from hearing and sharing stories about my addiction to hearing and sharing stories about my recovery, including all the successes and failures. I went from seeing abstinence as shameful punishment, a metaphorical self-flagellation, to eventually learning that abstinence was just the beginning, that it was means to have clarity of mind and give myself opportunity to make smarter, safer decisions. Abstinence was not a whip or chains, it was a mirror and a touchstone—a safe space. This is how I came to embrace WPAC in the last few years and reduce my watch buying and hoarding. This is "my program" to use AA parlance, and it did not happen overnight. Addiction recovery never ends but it changes with sobriety and time. Hearing how others have employed the ideals of WPAC gives me new tools to add to my toolbox and it helps me continue on a path to becoming a more conscientious watch enthusiast instead of just a watch collector.
I am planning several purges throughout 2023 and budgeting to have a handful of them serviced before deciding on their fate. My hope is that reducing my collection size would give me greater clarity about where I want to go in this hobby. As for buying, my guiding principle today is to have a more interesting collection rather than more variety, and I am hoping an overall smaller collection will bring additional clarity.
Tough Love, Wim. Tough Love.Everytime you've got a "sound" plan, let it pass the scrutiny of Grand Inquisitor Hard Love...
My thoughts are with you Larry, God bless you and your wifeHope everyone had a good New Year. I have not been reading through the posts and spend little time on WUS anymore. However I thought I would check in and give a report on my watch journey. I have not bought any watches since Nov 2022. I did not sell any watches at all in 2022. I gave two watches away as gifts in Dec., one G-Shock to my son and one nice new Arnie SNJ035 to my neighbors father for his birthday. She helps with my wife and did not know what to get her father, so I was happy to help. Turns out he is a retired Navy Seal so he loved the watch.
That brings me to my current SOTC
Mechanical box has 4 plus the Hammy digital.
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Solar box has 11
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Quartz box has 20
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Misc box some needing batteries has 6
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One I will never fix
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With this I have no plans nor desire to buy any more watches. Maybe will sell off the Omega and Tag if the market for them improves over the years but that's about it. Don't rotate much any more. I have been wearing the Mondaine for over a month just switched to an Arnie today. Anyway I have been into other hobbies and don't spend much time searching watches though I do look occasionally. My wife's condition continues to deteriorate which takes my time now. I don't expect to follow much here this year but wish you all success with whatever goals you set for yourselves.
Best wishes,
Larry
Nice collection! Good variety there.As promised I’m back — this time with a crappy SOTC shot. It’s missing one of my submersibles which will be listed for sale shortly.
I know, I'm not the one who coined that name lol, I just embraced itTough Love, Wim. Tough Love.
Hard Love is something completely different, and I don't want to think about that while visiting WPAC![]()
Be careful with rushing it! Taking time with buying and selling helps with preventing impulse decisions.My purge has begun! 5 watches listed for sale yesterday... Now the harder bit - not replacing all of them!
You got it! That's the way to inspire motivation lol 😂362 to go.
Good god that's insane. Buying 3 watches and selling 2 of them every two weeks... for an entire year!I saw some others admitting their cumulative failures year by year, so I thought I would join in the self-flagellation. These numbers are approximate, but I think they are pretty accurate.
2018: 75 watches purchased. 52 removed. SOTC - 23 watches. Joined WPAC mid year to reign in the madness.
2019: 33 watches purchased. 39 removed. SOTC - 17 watches. Still crazy churn, but certainly better than 2018.
2020: 20 watches purchased. 23 removed. SOTC - 14 watches. Getting better, but not reasonable yet.
2021: 13 watches purchased. 9 removed. SOTC - 18 watches. On the right path, but still too much flipping.
2022: 5 watches purchased. 5 removed. SOTC - 18 watches. Much improved, and finally disgusted with the churn.
There's no internet connection in the Gulag, so you won't hear about selling there, just abstinence. You don't need a sentence for admission to the Gulag, voluntary sign up is possible at H.'s office.I’m finding all this talk of selling watches a bit much.
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At the rate I’m going I can see me getting shipped off there against my will. “There’s a Batgirl in the corner of that railcar Sticky” “SLAM” and it’s off to the gulag I go.There's no internet connection in the Gulag, so you won't hear about selling there, just abstinence. You don't need a sentence for admission to the Gulag, voluntary sign up is possible at H.'s office.
More like this I reckon Sticky.....I’m finding all this talk of selling watches a bit much.
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My records indicate that I've sold 63 watches over the past five years just through listings on Watchuseek. I was apprehensive at first, but you learn that selling to other watch enthusiasts is actually fairly easy as long as you don't have an inflated opinion of what a used watch is worth. Being in the UK, you will need to make it known that you're only interested in selling to others in the same region. Brexit probably complicated sales to those in the EU.I’m finding all this talk of selling watches a bit much.
They've all been out of sight for a minimum of 3 months. They're goners!Be careful with rushing it! Taking time with buying and selling helps with preventing impulse decisions.
Generally I'd advise people who want to do a serious culling of the collection, to first put away the watches to sell in a drawer out of sight for a month, to see how you feel about living without them. Then proceed with selling those you didn't miss. Sellers remorse just fuels the next impulse buy.