Wow, maybe I should have swung for the fences and picked it up while I was there...Yes, at my AD they will not special order Datejust in the 41mm size for you, just 36mm and not in the new dial patterns. For the 41mm DJ then you just need to wait and see what your AD gets allocated from Rolex, then you also need to hope that the waitlist or line to get one is not too long. People want ANY Rolex these days and with the SS sports models in the most demand that is then creating a trickle down effect where the demand for Datejusts and precious metal models have been going up too. A 2 month wait for a DJ is not bad at all!
OP - congrats on your watch, it's a real beauty!